Groom Prep Tips for a Calm and Confident Wedding Morning
Your wedding morning is the perfect opportunity to start your day feeling relaxed, prepared, and ready to marry the love of your life. As a documentary wedding photographer, I’ve seen firsthand how a little preparation can go a long way in keeping things smooth and stress-free. Here are my top tips to help you stay calm, look sharp, and enjoy every moment.
1. Prepare your outfit the day before
Make sure your suit is steamed and ready to go well in advance. Take time the day before to remove any tags and labels and lay everything out ready for the morning. Pack a second shirt and a fresh pair of socks for the evening, so you look and feel your best right through to the end of the night.
Tip for photos: Gather all of your key details in one spot before your photographer arrives. Items like your watch, cufflinks, fragrance, wedding rings, tie, and shoes will not only streamline the morning but also add depth and personal style to your wedding gallery.
2. Choose a comfortable, light-filled space
Where you get ready can set the tone for your morning. Choose a location that’s comfortable, tidy, and filled with natural light. A well organised space helps you stay relaxed while also providing a perfect backdrop for photos.
Tip for photos: Natural light is your best friend – soft, even light creates clean, vibrant images that showcase your wedding day style.
3. Write or reflect on your vows
Take a quiet moment to write or reflect on your vows. This simple act can help ground you and remind you of the most important part of the day – marrying your partner.
Tip for photos: These reflective moments often make for emotional and personal images that capture the anticipation and excitement of the day.
4. Keep it to your close circle
Stick to your groomsmen and a close family member or two. Having fewer people around helps maintain a calm atmosphere, avoiding unnecessary distractions or chaos.
Tip for photos: These authentic moments with your closest people come through beautifully in photos.
5. Do final checks and take a moment for yourself
Before heading out, do one last check to make sure you have everything: rings, vows, wallet, phone, and any sentimental items. Then, take a moment for yourself – whether it’s to breathe, reflect, or simply soak in the excitement of the day.
Tip for photos: These quiet, candid moments can result in some of the most striking and emotional images, capturing the calm before the celebration.
Location: Grootberg Lodge, Namibia
